Enjoy Your Kids. Homeschool Them. Don’t Sweat Socialization. Or College.

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Kids, school, changes in the air and changes in the family.

Every year it’s too soon.

I’ve already seen the sports teams start practicing at the high school up the hill. The school supply aisle at Walmart looks like an entire row of school lockers gorged on notebooks and threw up in unison.

The resale shops are busy with audiences of moms watching the dressing room doors to part, ready to cheer or jeer each costume change of their children.

On our drive yesterday there was the hint of fall color in some trees, color that wasn’t there three days previous.

Homeschool Advantage

As homeschoolers, every year at this time we appreciate that our lives aren’t dictated by a school schedule. We never had to force our kids’ bodies into classrooms and heads into books when their hearts were still barefoot in the backyard.

We’d watch the neighbor kids board the school bus and then load up our family for another trip to the beach. Another swim. Another push from daddy on the swings. Another ice cream on the way home.

A New Type of Change

This year is different.

This year, we part ways with our oldest.

It’s not a school bus waiting to swallow him up, but rather his independant adult life. He’s accepted a full time job, lined up a room to rent, and has a to-do list for moving out of the RV.

It Goes By So Quickly

It’s a cliche. But it’s real.

The time with your kids is so short. We started traveling fulltime mainly because our oldest had become a teenager and it forced us to realize how little time we had left with him home.

Five years later, we’re so glad we made that choice.

So Enjoy Your Kids

Our friends the Longneckers have been fulltime on the road for a couple months now and Ashley recently wrote a blog post titled Enjoy time with your kids - they’re awesome!. In it she echoes our thoughts:

When your kids are grown and gone I highly doubt you will look back at these younger years and say, ‘I am so glad I sent them away for 3 hours a day so that I could be alone!’ I bet your response will be something similar to, ‘Where did the time go? I miss them being little!’ Ashley @ Bareneckers.com

OK, So How Do I Roadschool?

The Matador Network recently linked to a number of families who’ve choosen non-traditional ways of educating their kids.

You can also peruse our own guide to homeschooling and roadschooling which links to resource pages for age-appropriate curriculum.

But What About College?

Our oldest isn’t immediately college-bound and we’re fine with that. US culture likes to shove fresh highschool graduates into college too quickly, before they have any idea of the world they are entering.

If you are concerned with your homeschooled child’s chances for getting into college, Business Insider recently wrote Homeschooling Is the New Path to Harvard.  In the article they hint at the aspect of homeschooling that roadschoolers take even greater advantage of:

The real value lies in what the added freedom of homeschooling allows students to do with their time.BusinessInsider.com

And After College?

We’re looking forward to seeing how our long-term travel affects our children over the long haul. I don’t think it all sinks in right away.

I’ve been telling them that I expect a phone call about the time they turn 30 wherein they tell me “HOLY COW THAT WAS AWESOME!” and apologize for any complaint they ever had about our time on the road.

Maybe I’ll get that call and maybe not - but I wouldn’t be surprised if this article by Stephanie Dandan of Infinite Satori describes who they have become:

We travel to learn, to experience, and to feel all the spectrums of being human in this world.Stephanie @infinitesatori.com

Whether my kids ever fully realize it I’m ever-convinced that from a learning and growth perspective there was no better thing we could have done for them than traveling fulltime.

What’s Your Season?

What changes is your family experiencing this season?

2 Comments Enjoy Your Kids. Homeschool Them. Don’t Sweat Socialization. Or College.

  1. Picture of Heather Sanders Heather Sanders September 15, 2015

    Love reading this as it continues to inspire me and affirm our intentions on choosing this lifestyle. I don’t want to look back and regret not making memories. I also hope that my kids will call me at 30 too to tell me how awesome their childhood was for the time spent learning and experiencing life outside the box.

  2. Picture of Michael Boyink Michael Boyink September 16, 2015

    Thanks for the comment Heather!  It should be interesting as my son launches off - he’ll be meeting a ton of people with different backgrounds and I’ll be curious to hear how it goes getting to know them all.

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